Who Gets the Dog? Pets, Divorce, and Planning Ahead

Who Gets the Dog? Pets, Divorce, and Planning Ahead

Over the course of my career, I’ve handled hundreds of divorces involving pets, and yes, one of them even went to trial over who would get the couple’s dog. If you’ve ever loved a pet, that probably doesn’t surprise you.

Pets become part of our family. They share our homes, our routines, and our milestones. So when a relationship ends, deciding where the pet goes can become as emotionally charged as deciding where the children live.

So what happens at the end of a relationship if there is a dispute over Rover? Let’s discuss:

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The Pre-Divorce Money Prep Checklist: Documents, Taxes, and Smart Timing

Divorce can be a complex and emotionally charged process. Alongside the personal and emotional aspects, understanding the financial implications is essential for anyone considering or going through a divorce.

Being financially prepared is crucial, and one of the best ways to do this is by creating a pre-divorce money preparation checklist. This includes gathering important documents, understanding tax implications, and timing your decisions wisely to protect your financial well-being.

Read on for my list of essential documents that you should gather in preparation for a coming divorce matter, as well some important points about taxes and timing.

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Why January Divorce Filings Spike: What Really Happens After the Holidays

When the new year rolls in, many folks see it as an opportunity for a fresh start. Unfortunately, for some, that fresh start means reevaluating their marriages.

January has become notorious for a significant increase in divorce filings, and it’s worth digging into why so many couples decide to make this pivotal change once the holiday cheer fades.

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Holiday Guilt Spending: Setting Boundaries to Avoid Post-Split Financial Fallout

The holiday season is a time filled with joy, gatherings, and the spirit of giving. However, for those facing the challenges of a looming divorce, this season can easily morph into a high-pressure environment that encourages overspending.

It’s important to recognize the tendency for “holiday guilt spending” and set clear boundaries that can protect both your emotional wellbeing and your finances before the new year (or a new divorce) begins.

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